The Best Aspect of Life

People ask me if I'm ok. The question of "what's wrong?" seems to be weaved into daily conversations now. The answer always seems to be the same too. "nothing". It's not that there are problems. Other people have problems. There are starving people, homeless people, dying people. They have bigger problems then I could ever experience. You could say I just have "minor bumps in the road". Homework, acne, stress. Those are the types of things that can ruin a day or make you sad. And it's not that your always sad. Sometimes you just feel tired and done. Done with trying to make it feel better and make yourself look happy. On the inside, you just don't want to deal with it. Everyone has those days. It's an unavoidable part of life. Basically, things will happen and you'll cry or feel bad about yourself, but in the end, it is you that will decide how to deal with these things. Would you get mad over a breakup or fight? Or would you take a step back before getting worked up and look at the bright side. Wether you like it or not, everything has two sides, like a coin. You have heads, which is what everyone sees. And you have tails, which is always there but sometimes ignored. Whatever you're going through can be viewed as a positive versus a negative. It can benefit your life and make it better rather than ruining your day and making you sad. It can depend on wether the positive outweighs the negative, but overall it's important to look at how the event can shape your life. Nothing lasts forever, except time itself, which has to end at some point. A hardship now can't control your life forever. Just remember to take a step back and view the whole picture, because there is always a flip side to whatever situation, and there is always a better aspect of life.